Oh, This Girl!

Don't be fooled by that big smile and all-around cuteness.  She's a 3 year old.  I always heard the worst age was 2 but oh no.  Not even close.  I even wrote about it today on Facebook.  It got lots of attention from several mothers who know exactly what I'm talking about. 

I typed that during one of my daughter's meltdowns.  We were in the kitchen and she very rudely asked for a piece of candy.  I don't allow my children to have candy so early in the morning and I tried to remind her of that but she threw herself on the floor and had a fit.  I didn't want to pick her up, yell at her or even talk to her at that point.  I walked away.  I took my phone and went into my room where I took a few minutes to browse on Facebook.  I'm not sure why I did that.  I usually just take some time to pray, and I did that too, but that moment did help a lot.  She quieted down instantly.  With my son I had learned to ignore his tantrums and that always worked.  Of course, my son was a much more laid back and easier toddler to deal with.  My daughter brings on a whole new challenge.  After she calmed down I walked back into the living room and didn't say a word about how she acted.  We both moved on.  But her tantrums, her demands, her stubbornness certainly didn't end there.  I have my work cut out for me with this girl, for sure.

Being a parent is wonderful for so many reasons but there are also times when I would rather pull every strand of my hair out of my head piece by piece than to have to deal with the attitude, the whining and the tempers.  I refuse to give in to my children, especially when they are rude and forget to say please.  My daughter hates and I mean HATES hearing the word no.  Whenever I say no, even if I say it calmly, her response is always, "why are you so mean to me?"  I try to explain why I say no but she doesn't seem interested.  She just wants what she wants when she wants it. 

Yes, I have a strong-willed child but I'm not backing down.  Even though at times, like today, I feel completed defeated. 

36

I recently celebrated my 36th birthday.  Some may say that is still young and some may say that is old and aside from a few strands of gray hair and a few wrinkles (yes, already. blah) I can say I still feel pretty young.  I can't bend and stretch like I used to and I've been experiencing some pains here and there but I'm still very young.  Thankfully, I'm still quite healthy too. 

As I am approaching the age of 40 I am noticing just how fast time seems to fly the older I get.  I distinctly remember my attitude during the teen years and how life seemed to be dragging on and I couldn't see myself being a 20 year old, let alone a 30 year old.  I had no idea what my future would hold and I certainly didn't care.  Wow, knowing all I know now I wish I could go back to those days and give my teenager self a major attitude adjustment.  The twenties came and went too fast.  I was married at 23 and didn't have my first child until age 29.  It seems the thirties have been the best years of my life so far. 

My dear husband took off work, as he always does every year, and spent the day with me.  We waited until my son came home from school and then enjoyed dinner at the Olive Garden and then home to eat some cupcakes made by my husband (and a little help from our daughter).  Oh they were so delicious.  I snuck one today too.  Ugh, going to need to exercise like crazy this week. 

I can also proudly say that I am in the best shape of my life.  No kidding.  The size of my clothes are smaller than they have been in a long time and I'm building muscles I never had before.  My diet could use a little work but I found a love for exercising that I never had before.  It's so amazing.  Who I am now is someone I wish I could have been so many years ago, but I can't go back in time and I refuse to have any regrets.  I'm a happy 36 year old.  Life is good. 

Hello October

We are now in the third day of October.  I love this month.  The weather is getting cooler but still pleasantly warm.  The leaves are changing colors and falling to the ground.  In fact, this is what my front yard looks like right now.

This is all from our neighbor's tree.  My husband doesn't seem to like the fact that the leaves from their tree falls into our yard because it could kill the grass but I don't mind.  If I get the chance I want to rake the leaves into a big pile for the kids to jump in just like my sister and I used to do when we were little.  Or maybe it was that my dad ordered her to rake the leaves and I just helped myself into the pile.  Hmmm?  Doesn't matter.  All I remember is jumping into a pile of leaves is fun.  Anything to make my kids happy. 

The weather is warm but there is a little wind that is blowing around.  I finished the first coat of stain on our back deck ... finally!  Next chance I have will be to add the second coat.  It's looking good.  I'm happy with it.  Then hopefully this month we can continue on the kitchen renovations.  I just can't wait for it. 

Right now I'm just sitting on the rocking chair in the living room with my feet up, laptop on my lap and listening to the sound of ... NOTHING.  My husband is at work, my son is in school and my daughter is napping.  I enjoy this time of the day when it's quiet.  I usually spend it cleaning but I also make sure to take a little "me" time.  I need that time.  And the house is getting that amazing pumpkin spice scent all thanks to my candle that's sitting on the warmer.

 

 I love candles and have many.  This and an apple one that's perfect for fall.  

This weekend my husband needs to go to archery training, we have a birthday party to attend and will also be visiting friends in their new house.  It seems the weekends this month are already booked up with fun things to do.  Halloween will also be here before we know it.  My son decided to reuse his Thor costume from last year.  Yesterday my daughter picked out a Snow White costume to wear.  I'm looking forward to Halloween ... and candy!  What else is going on this month?  Oh yeah ... my birthday is in a few days; however, this year I'm just not feeling in the birthday spirit.  Birthdays used to be a huge deal for me but now it just seems like another day.  Is it because I'm getting older?  The older I get the faster time seems to be moving.  I don't like how quickly time is going.  It feels as if the twenties went by with a blink of an eye.  Then I turned 30 and suddenly I'm in my mid-thirties.  It won't be long before a 4 and a 0 will be on top of my birthday cake.  Yikes!  Can time please slow down?

Okay, well this was just a lot of babbling.  I will end it here.  Have a great weekend everyone!  

Apple Picking

Since our son was a baby we started the tradition every October to go pumpkin picking.  I have been wanting to go apple picking and we finally made it happen.  This was the first for us and it was a lot of fun.  Hopefully this is something we can do every year from now on.  Another awesome fall tradition to add to the list. 

We went to a well known orchard in our area.  My husband helped the kids pick the apples from the trees while I spent most of the time snapping pictures with my camera.  Next time I'll enjoy the apple picking experience for myself but since it was our first time I wanted to capture the moments in photographs.  That's just how I am. 

My 6 year old is pretty good with the camera, I must admit.  He snapped this one of us:

 

It was a great day and we brought home a lot of apples.  Even picked some for my parents.  

I took a picture of part of the orchard.  Gotta love the country life!   I do like it here in the Keystone State. 

 

Autumn is here!

Autumn is here!  Actually, yesterday was the first official day but I was too busy to blog.  I miss blogging regularly and it seems I have so many other blogs to read and catch up on.  Right now my daughter is playing games on my Mp3 player while watching one of her favorite shows and I decided to take a little break to type up this blog and sip my pumpkin spice coffee.  There is so much that needs done around the house but I'm allowing myself to have a lazy, relaxing morning before starting on the chaos.

I've been spending a few hours each day this week staining our backyard deck.  It's looking great.  My husband rebuilt the deck last year and now I'm finally getting around to putting the stain on.  A lot of people complain about painting but I actually enjoy it.  It's so relaxing.  I try to get a little done during nap time and after dinner before the sun goes down.  Now that it's fall the sun is going down earlier and the evenings are chillier.  So are the mornings.

Yesterday to welcome the new season I made a batch of pumpkin spice brownies and pumpkin flavored cookies.  That's just the start, I plan to do more baking and learning more recipes.  I also want to start cooking soups and other warm autumn-appropriate recipes.  As a family we are planning to go to a local orchard for apple and pumpkin picking.  We've done a little fall decorating around the house and it will only be a few months before the Christmas stuff comes out.  This is my favorite time of the year.  Story time at the library started back up again this week and that makes my daughter very happy.  My son seems to be doing excellent in school and is becoming a great reader.  However, today he had a tough time wanting to get out of bed.  He's usually the first one awake TOO early so this was rare.  Both of my kids are early risers.

I better get off.  My daughter is asking for a snack.  Hope autumn brings you a lot of happiness and cheer.

Autumn Is In The Air

Even though autumn isn't officially here, according to the calendar, it definitely feels like it.  The temperature has dropped and it's time for us to wear the hoodies, jackets and jeans.  I don't particularly care for the colder weather but I do love this time of year because there is so much to do.  Apple picking, pumpking picking, trick-or-treating, etc.  Also, let's not forget consuming everything pumpkin flavored.  You can imagine my excitement when my husband came home with the traditional pumpkin spice creamer for our morning coffee.

 

I enjoyed every sip.

After putting my son on the bus my daughter and I stayed outside for a little bit looking at the trees and all the leaves that are starting to change colors and fall.  Nature is so beautiful this time of year.  We found this cool red one of the ground.

And now that autumn is just around the corner I'm getting so excited to decorate the inside of the house.  I came up with a creative do-it-yourself decoration and after purchasing some of the supplies at the craft store and then printing out a template I can't wait to begin.  Here's a little hint.

Getting Crafty - Paper Plate Apple

I love any opportunity to get crafty, especially with the kids, although we don't do it nearly enough as I'd like.  I had an idea of a fun project to do with my three year old daughter that would allow her the chance to use (kid's safety) scissors and glue.  Here it is.

First I took a paper plate and cut the edges off so it was only a small circle.  Then I took the scraps from the edges to cut out a leaf shape and a stem shape.

I gave my daughter a piece of red construction paper and the scissors.  I had to constantly show her how to hold the scissors correctly but those little fingers always ended up doing their own thing.

She had a lot of pieces cut before giving up on the step.  Then we moved onto the next step.  Gluing the pieces onto the circle.  I dabbed the glue on each piece and she placed them anywhere on the plate.  We quickly learned that she is not a fan of getting glue on her hands so I ended up having to take over while she went back to the job of cutting pieces.

 

When every area of the circle was covered with red pieces I glued the stem and leaf to the top and, viola, we have an apple.