"Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all" -- Proverbs 31
These
were two moments when I learned that love at first sight does exist. I
will never forget those times of seeing my babies for the first time.
After carrying them for 40 weeks I couldn't wait to see their faces and
to hold them. Motherhood is quite an adventure and it's all worth it. I
wake up early, get them ready for school, make sure they go to every
doctor and dentist appointment, make sure they understand the importance
of good hygiene, help them with school work and celebrate in all of
their accomplishments, rush one to dance class and cheer on the other
during baseball games. Even when it's' cold and rainy I make sure I can
get a good view of my son while he's at bat or playing on the field.
All the whining, crying, runny noses and complaining of boredom. The
fights between the two that I have to break up but then the times I see
them sharing and helping one another. Making sure there is a warm meal
for them every evening and plenty of snacks and treats to fill their
hungry bellies in between meals. Everything I do as a mother is worth
it. I do believe in teaching my kids how to be independent and I won't
do stuff for them that they can do for themselves. When I see them
accomplish a task without asking for help I feel like that part of my
job is fulfilled. As Dr. Phil always says, "You aren't raising kids,
you are raising adults." I want to make sure that my children grow up to be
independent, self-sufficient, responsible, respectful adults. It takes a
lot of work, doesn't it?
Yesterday was probably the
best Mothers Day I have experienced. I was told I could sleep in but,
of course, I woke up early. I stayed in bed and waited until the kids
came in to get me. My son prepared a delicious strawberry pancake and
bacon breakfast. I was presented with a beautiful bouquet of flowers
that my daughter picked out, presents from my husband and handmade cards
from the kids. Then my son helped with lunch and also dinner. My
parents came over to spend most of the day with us. After my mom's
stroke 5 years ago each year with her is a blessing. My husband cleaned
up. I didn't have to lift a finger yesterday. It was nice. My
husband and kids did an excellent job at making me feel special. I love
them so much.
Becoming
a mother has been the greatest gift and I am so honored that God chose
me to be the mom of these two. They make me smile and laugh all the
time. Since they have been born I can't imagine what my life would be
like without them. They have given me a purpose and drive me to be the
best person I can be. It's an amazing thing. I am blessed!
A day late but wishing all you beautiful mommies out there a Happy Mother's Day. You are all awesome!
