Matthew is 12!

Over the weekend my son turned 12 years old.  He's my oldest and the one who made me a mother.  It's amazing how quickly the years are passing.  I remember the day he was born, waking up throughout the night for endless feedings, his first word, first step, putting him on the school bus for his first day of school, and so much more.

He's always been affectionate and continues to be that way.  I'm sure all those hugs, kisses and "I love you mom" will slow down soon and I'm embracing it as much as possible.  He still plays with toys and loves using his imagination.  That too will change soon, I know.  It's hard to believe that in one year he will be a teenager.  A TEENAGER!  I'm not ready for it.

Since his birthday fell on a Sunday this year and his favorite NFL team was playing at home he wanted to go to a game.  This is something he and his father had never experienced before.  I joked and told him we couldn't afford it, even when we had purchased the tickets already.  I'm so glad we made his wish come true.  Bonus: his team won!  If you know anything about the Washington Redskins you know that they have some of the most loyal fans who stick with them through years of one defeat after another.  It was cool to know that they won.  Only the two guys went to the game while me and my daughter stayed home.  It was kind of hard not being with my boy on his birthday but I knew he was having the time of his life.

My boy is 12.  As I said, he's very affectionate and also kind.  He's shy around people but at home he talks A LOT.  He has a bit of a speech issue and is working on it with a speech teacher in school.  Academically he does very well in school.  He's in an advanced math club and, well, can do arithmetic a lot better than I ever could.  He's involved in boy scouts, baseball, basketball, and plays trumpet with the school band.  This boy can take the music he learns on the trumpet and play it on the piano.  I'm amazed at his abilities.  I'm so, so proud!  As much as he picks on his sister I know he loves her and it's nice to see how much he enjoys playing with her.  I'm not sure what the teenage years will bring but I'm grateful for this kid!

Day Out and Dance Observation

In the last few days I haven't been feeling well.  It hurts when I take deep breaths, my head hurts and my body aches.  The change in season already spikes my depression and gets me emotionally down.  It also makes me feel tired and all I want to do is bundle up under a blanket and relax.  Now I have this to deal with.  I got a flu shot last week so I'm hoping it's not from that.  I never had an issue after getting a flu vaccination before, but I do hear a lot of people end up sick afterwards.  I'm just hoping this doesn't turn into something worse.

I wanted to write a recap on my mother/son day on Saturday.  We went to the mall in the next county.  He's in need of winter clothes so I did buy him some new pants and treated him to a drink and pretzel at Auntie Anne's.  I also bought him a new Pop Figure, he collects them.  Then he played in the arcade.   It was a simple day but he and I both enjoyed the quality time.  He and I never have one on one time together so we decided to make this a regular thing.  I told him our next mother/son date would be snow tubing.  He told me he likes walking around the mall and seemed very happy with the day but I know snow tubing will be something more exciting and fun.  I cannot believe this boy will be 12 in a few weeks.

Also, last week and this week is observation week at dance.  I love getting to watch my daughter dance in her classes.  This year she's in three different classes.  Kids Ballet, Kids Tap 2, and Praise.  

Praise

Ballet

Tap

This is her fifth year of dance and she's come so far.  When I was a child I only made it five years in ballet and I'm hoping she goes further.  She definitely has the desire to.  The girl loved dancing even before she knew how to walk.  

Happy Homemaker Monday - 11/ 11/19

First, I want to thank those who read my HHM last week and for the comments and new followers.  My blogging journey started years ago on Xanga.  Xanga was a fun blogging community where I had a lot of followers and people I followed.  When Xanga decided to start charging its users everyone decided to leave and I think they eventually shut down.  I went on Wordpress for awhile and then joined Blogger.  At first I did have followers from those who had used Xanga and also went to Blogger, but they all seemed to give up on blogging.  Lack of time and interest, I guess?  Some of them are my Facebook "friends" now so, thankfully, we still get to keep in touch.  So, anyway, thank you to those who take the time to read my posts and comment.

Welcome to my Happy Homemaker, created by the wonderful Sandra at Diary of A Stay At Home Mom.

HAPPY VETERANS DAY to those who served and to the spouses/parents of those who have served (you deserve recognition too).

The weather outside is::::

Monday - 62, partly cloudy

Tuesday - 38, cloudy and rain, turning to snow

Wednesday - 36, partly cloudy

Thursday - 42, partly cloudy 

Friday - 50, sunny

Saturday - 40, partly cloudy
Sunday - 46, partly cloudy

It amazes me how much the weather changes day to day around here.  

On the breakfast plate this morning::::

  A cup of hot coffee, a bowl of berry flavored Cheerios, and a banana.  

As I look outside my window:::

      The air is a bit warm, the leaves on the trees are their autumn colors of orange, yellow and red, some have fallen on the ground.  The sky is filled with clouds.  

Right now I am::::

Typing this up while I finish a cup of coffee and prepare for a day of cleaning.  After the weekend the house looks like it was hit with a tornado.  

As I look around the house::::

Like I said, the house looks like it's been hit by a tornado.  The coffee table is filled with the kids' library books, school papers I have to sort through, and small toys.  The floor needs swept and mopped.  

On today's to do list::::

Make Murphy's kennel appointment

Clean floors

Work

Grocery shopping

Take daughter to tap class. observation night

On the menu this week::::

Monday - Grilled cheese and tomato soup
Tuesday - Tacos and Spanish rice 
Wednesday -  Pork chops, zucchini tomato bake 
Thursday -
Friday - Crock pot tater tot casserole
Saturday -
Sunday - My husband's homemade pizza 

Currently reading::::

Getting back into daily Bible reading because I need it.  

On the TV this week::::

This is Us

New Amsterdam

A Million Little Things
Dynasty

What I am creating at the moment::::

Writing a story I hope to be published.  It's going to take awhile, though, but I'm determined to get it done.  

New recipe I tried or want to try this week::::

 Zucchini tomato bake  found on Pinterest

Favorite photo from the camera:::: 

Prayers, Inspirational Quotes or Devotionals::::

I was diagnosed with depression when I was a teenager and it's something that I have had to battle with since.  Some days are good and other days it takes all the strength I have just to get out of bed and get through the day.  Lately, I feel the depression hitting me hard.  It's definitely common this time of year when the weather gets colder.  It's harder to deal with when my husband doesn't understand and wants to argue with me when I'm down instead of giving me my space.  With my depression also comes thoughts of regrets I have on certain life decisions I've made.  I try really hard to think positive but I can't control what pops into my head.  I can say that my faith in God does help tremendously.  Without that belief I probably would have ended my life a long time ago.  I truly believe that when I'm battling and fighting through these feelings He's with me.

I know there are others, like me, who are battling through mental illness, or even a physical illness.  There are people who have lost a job and are having trouble finding a new one.  There are people struggling to put food on their table.  There are people mourning the loss of a loved one.  There are people who might possibly lose their house and need assurance that things will work out.  All over the world people are suffering with so many different things.  If you are currently suffering or struggling with something I want you to know that you are not alone.  As humans we can only see what's in front of us but God is omniscient, meaning He knows all and knows what will happen from beginning to end.  There may be a purpose or a reason for what you are going through.  Or maybe it's meant to be a lesson.  Whatever it is, put your faith and trust in the One who can get you through it.

"Do not be anxious about anything, but by everything in prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.  And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus" -- Philippians 4:6-7

Have a blessed week, all!

Happy Friday!

Good afternoon friends.

We made it to Friday!  How does time feel like it's going slow and fast at the same time?  I made it through another week of work in the cafeteria and in less than an hour the kids will be home from school.  There's so much around the house that needs done, as always, but I'm taking a moment to relax before the chaos starts again.  

Here is my dog bundled up beside me.  This old, lazy pug never misses an opportunity to snuggle.  As I type this up he's snoring away.  

The weather outside is cold and today was the first day I brought out the winter coat.  There have even been snow flurries falling throughout the day, the first of the season.  Personally, I prefer the warm weather but I am thankful to live in a state that experiences all four seasons.  

Dinner has been cooking in the crockpot all day and it's filling the house with a delicious smell.  My daughter has two dance classes tonight, and we can run home in between to eat.  Tonight is observation night so I get to watch and take a ton of pictures.  

Yesterday I had a doctor appointment.  You know - it's that lady appointment where you get poked and probed, at least that's what I call it.  I had some medical concerns but things seem to be okay.  Whew!  I did have to run to the lab this morning for a urine test for a possible bacteria infection.  It's wonderful growing older, isn't it?  

I promised my son that tomorrow we could have a mother/son day out.  He and I don't get a lot of one on one time together.  It makes me happy that a boy of almost 12 still loves wanting to be with his mom.  I'm not sure what we will do yet but I'm looking forward to the quality time.  

Well, friends and readers, I hope you have a wonderful weekend.  Stay warm!  

Halloween 2019

Where is this year going?  I feel as though September skipped us and October came through even faster.  I'm starting to see Christmas decorations going up in the neighborhood.  Personally, I like to wait until after Thanksgiving to decorate for Christmas.  When I think about Thanksgiving I think about all things orange, yellow, brown, pumpkins, cornucopias, and turkeys.  It's really hard for me to combine that holiday with Christmas but to each his own, I guess.

This year for Halloween my daughter didn't want to be her usual cutesy princess.  She wanted to go as something scary.  We didn't plan on getting her a costume this year but when I saw the zombie ballerina at the Halloween store I couldn't resist.  It's perfect for a girl who already takes professional dance lessons.  My son kept the same costume as last year.

I took my daughter to her school's Trunk or Treat but my son had to miss it because of Boy Scouts but she was more than happy to share her candy with him.

 Because the weather was bad;  rain and heavy winds and a tornado watch, Trick-or-Treating in our community was changed from October 31 to November 2.  It was nice to have it on a Saturday.  The kids dressed up and we walked around the neighborhood.  They ended up with more candy then we know what to do with.  I'm not even sure I will allow them to keep it all.

Happy Homemaker Monday - November 4, 2019

Wow, I haven't done this in about a year or two.  I really enjoyed doing these, especially since it helped me stay organized and it was also fun to join in and read other posts.  This was created and is maintained by the wonderful Sandra at Diary Of A Stay At Home Mom.  I have to admit, she's my favorite blogger.  There aren't many blogs I follow these days, not like I used to, but I do hope to get back into it and find more blogs to follow.  Sandra's blog always has that warm and inviting feeling and her writing is simply just talking about her journey through being a wife, mom and homemaker.  So many blogs these days are just too formal, and want to focus on telling you how to live your life and offer advice on how to do this and how to do that and why you are doing things wrong.  I don't enjoy that, to be honest.  I love to hear about your day.  Hear about your struggles.  Your adventures.  Your experiences.  Your reasons to celebrate.  Etc.  Okay, okay, you get the point.  I'm sorry for mumbling.  Now onto this week's HHM and I hope to get back to it on a regular basis.  I don't always have all the answers filled out so I apologize for that.  Even on a Monday I'm still trying to figure out the week ahead.

{ Happy Homemaker Monday - 11/04/2019 }

The weather outside is::::

Cold!  Ugh.  We actually had warm weather until the start of November.  Now the cold weather is starting to make it's appearance.  They are even calling for possible snow by the end of the week ... whaaaat?

Monday - Sunny, 57
Tuesday - Sunny, 60
Wednesday - Sunny 53
Thursday - Cloudy, rain 52
Friday - Cloudy, rain, possible flurries, 42
Saturday - Partly cloudy, 44
Sunday - (not sure, yet)

On the breakfast plate this morning::::

I just enjoyed a simple bowl of honey nut cheerios and a cup of coffee.  I'm on my second cup now.    

As I look outside my window:::

This morning we woke up to frost on the car windows but the sun is shining and melted it all away.  The grass is covered in yellow colored leaves that fell from the neighbor's tree.  Other trees in the neighborhood have changed to their yellow, orange and red colors.  The best part of fall.        

Right now I am::::

I finished up some housework and am currently sitting here typing this up before more housework begins and also my three hours at the elementary school cafeteria.

As I look around the house::::

It's a mess.  It's always a mess.  Especially from the weekend.  The dog is laying on the love seat while I'm on the couch.  The coffee table has a partially finished puzzle that my son started working on yesterday.  The fire is also on just for a few moments while my dog and I warm up our paws from the walk.

On today's to do list::::

Take dog for a walk

Clean bird cage

Clean guinea pigs cage

3 hours at work

Grocery shopping

Clean/organize 

Make dinner

Take daughter to tap class

On the menu this week::::

Monday - meatloaf, mashed potatoes, green beans
Tuesday - Pork chops, zucchini fries, pasta salad
Wednesday - Chicken and veggie salad
Thursday -
Friday - Crock pot chili mac and cheese
Saturday - weekends tbd
Sunday - 

Currently reading::::

Nothing at the moment but I do intend on getting a new book to read.  I've been spending my free time writing these days.

On the TV this week::::

This is Us

New Amsterdam

A Million Little Things
Dynasty

What I am creating at the moment::::

Writing a story I hope to be published.  It's going to take awhile, though, but I'm determined to get it done.  

New recipe I tried or want to try this week::::

The chili mac and cheese recipe I found on Pinterest   

Favorite photo from the camera:::: 

Prayers, Inspirational Quotes or Devotionals::::

Praying for my mother as she battles through Alzhiemer's.  

Praying for answers in regards to my skin cancer.  

Praying for the physical pain my husband has been dealing with. 

"And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose," -- Romans 8:28