Happy Homemaker Monday - 1/6/20

This is going up a little late because I had such a busy morning, but I definitely wanted to get it done today.  Joining in with Sandra at Diary Of A Stay At Home Mom.  

THE WEATHER

Today it's sunny, warm but a bit windy.  

HOW I AM FEELING THIS MORNING

Well, for me, it's currently late afternoon.  I wasn't able to fall asleep last night until about 2am and was awake at 7am.  Since then it's been rushing around to get things done and 3 hours of work in the cafeteria.  There is so much more to be done and I'm feeling quite energetic considering my lack of sleep.  

ON MY MIND

With the new year I haven't set any resolutions but I have been determined to let go of everything worrying me and just give it to God.  I've been spending more time in prayer, listening to worship music, and just keeping my mind focused on the positive.  

ON THE BREAKFAST PLATE

I had a cup of coffee and some eggs.  

ON MY READING PILE

Sometimes I pick up the Bible and read something from Psalms, if nothing else.  I really do need to get a new book to read.  

ON MY TV

All of my current shows I watch are on winter break right now but we started rewatching Hart of Dixie on Netflix.  I've also been watching a lot of Halmark movies.  Even though they are so predictable and the plot is always so similar it's pretty sweet and better than most of what you find on tv these days.

ON THE MENU THIS WEEK

Monday - pork chops, sides

Tuesday - sausage and pasta

Wednesday - chicken and veggie salad

Thursday - taquitos and Spanish rice

Friday - something in the crockpot

Saturday - grilled cheese and tomato soup

Sunday - my husband's homemade pizza

FROM THE CAMERA

My son's in the red with the ball.

LOOKING AROUND THE HOUSE

Boxes of Christmas decorations piled up in the living room waiting to be put away in the attic.  Kids' stuff piled on the coffee table that needs put away.  Some groceries from my trip this morning in the kitchen needing to be put away.  

CHORE I'M NOT LOOKING FORWARD TO TODAY

Hmmm?  There's so much to do and to pick one that I'm not looking forward to doing is tough.  I noticed the kitchen floor can use some help so I was planning on getting on my hands and knees and doing some scrubbing, rather than using the mop.  Yeah, I guess that's one that's not fun.  And cleaning the toilets.  

TO RELAX THIS WEEK, I WILL

Usually by evening I'm ready to crash on the couch and grab my laptop to play some Candy Crush, or forget the laptop and just put on a movie or television show.  This is after the kids go to bed.  

ON MY PRAYER LIST

My mother's continued battle with Alzheimer's and my father, her caregiver, needing constant patience.  

Pain my husband has been dealing with and an upcoming surgery next month.

 For the safety of everyone.  

DEVOTIONAL/BIBLE VERSE

"My soul finds rest in God alone; my salvation comes from him.  He alone is my rock and my salvation; he is my fortress, I will never be shaken."

Back To The Routine

Well, Christmas vacation is over!  We spent time with family and spent most of the time relaxing at home and enjoying each other's company.  It was nice having the husband and kids home but I have to admit, I'm a little glad we're back into the normal routine.  I like my peace and quiet and to be able to clean the house uninterrupted.  With time off comes a lot of messes around the house and it's nice to get some housework done.  The decorations are still out so I'm hoping to start putting things away and getting this house back in order.  I can't stand a messy house but it seems the house is always a mess. 

Did everyone enjoy New Years?

On New Years Eve we stayed home and relaxed.  I made a selection of finger foods and the boys watched some football games, played Play Station and then we watched what was going on in New York City until the ball dropped at midnight.  The kids were tired and barely hanging on, but they insisted on staying up. 

Most of the evening I sat on the couch with the dog on my lap.  It was really nice.  To be honest, a night at home relaxing with the family and a 25 lb pug on my lap is something I enjoy more than being at a party. 

There were moments when Brianna wanted me to get up with her and dance along to the music that was playing on television. 

At midnight when the ball dropped we exchanged our New Year kisses and the kids were eager to get to bed.  The neighbors set off fireworks and banged pots and pans.  I don't mind that kind of celebration as soon as the new year arrives, but they were going on for a long time.  Ugh.  These neighbors, originally from New Jersey, are known to be loud throughout the night and it's something that has frustrated many of the surrounding neighbors.  Like I said, I'm okay with fireworks and banging of pots and pans for a few minutes but when it goes on for a half an hour that's just being inconsiderate.  It took me a long time after to be able to fall asleep.

On New Years Day I threw a pork roast, potatoes and carrots in the crock pot.  I know the tradition is pork and sauerkraut but my husband and kids won't eat sauerkraut so I changed it a bit.  We watched a little more football and I caught just a few minutes of the Rose Parade.  My parents came over and my dad went to see Jumanji with my son and I took my mom and Brianna to see Cats. 

When I was in elementary school (living on Long Island) the 6th grade class took a field trip to the city and saw Cats on Broadway.  By the time I was in 6th grade they changed it to The Phantom Of The Opera.  This was the original cast with Michael Crawford and Sarah Brightman.  My mom went as a chaperon.  She was looking forward to seeing Cats and was disappointed when they changed the show, but we loved Phantom.  I actually think it was a better choice.  My mom has the piano book Cats and always played Memory.   When the movie came out I knew I wanted to take her.  It was a nice movie with a lot of singing and dancing, which my daughter loves.  My mom fell asleep towards the end of the movie, which is common for her to do, and she missed when one of the character's sang Memory, but I teared up when remembering my mom playing it on the piano.  With her Alzheimer's things are getting so much harder and I miss the way things used to be. 

Today the kids are back to school, which means I'm back to working in the cafeteria.  My husband's car is the in the shop so we had to take him to work and will have to pick him up later.  It's only a two day school/work week followed by a busy weekend of basketball games. 

2020 is off to a great start! 

Happy New Year

I remember the chaos that surrounded the year 2000, or Y2K as it was called.  I spent New Years Eve at a friend's party, with other friends.  I was single and getting ready to graduate business school.  I had no idea what my future was going to be like but shortly after I started a serious relationship with Rob and a few years later we were married.  Now here we are twenty years later.  2020 just seems so unreal.  How did we get here so quickly?  In the last 20 years I became a wife and a mother of two.  I've had so many reasons to celebrate and made plenty of mistakes too.  These two decades have been a rollercoaster.

2019 was definitely a rollercoaster in itself.  I had three surgeries to remove skin cancer and it made my face look terrible.  I still have scars and am missing some eyelashes from the spot that was removed from under the eye.  The best part of the year was our trip to Disney World in March.  I had been dreaming of taking my family there.

I'm not sure what 2020 will bring but I hope it will have more ups than downs.  It's going to be a leap year and the next presidential election.

Here's a short recap of the year 2019:

January

 We rang in the new year in the comfort of our own home.

Received a little bit of snow

Walked through the ice festival in our city.

Witnessed a pretty cool lunar eclipse

February

Spent Valentines Day getting a skin cancer spot removed.  No pictures from that day.

My son's final Pinewood Derby with the cub scouts

More snow

March

Traded in my 19 year old Pontiac for a new vehicle (finally!)

Our first family trip to Disney World

Bumped into Darci Lynne at the airport.  If you have never seen America's Got Talent she is an amazing ventriloquist who won one of the seasons. 

April

The start of a new baseball season

Celebrating the death and resurrection of our Lord and Savior (Happy Easter)

May

My son bridged over from cub scouts to boy scouts.

Celebrated our 17th wedding anniversary, but the day consisted of professional dance pictures and a baseball game.  

Hubby celebrated his 40th birthday.

Spent Memorial Day at Hershey Park 

June

Kicked off summer vacation with the library's summer reading club and hikes.

My daughter's 4th dance recital 

My second of three skin cancer surgeries.  I received these beautiful flowers from my daughter's 2nd grade teacher.

July

Celebrated Independence Day at my parents with sparklers

Hubby took the kids to see monster trucks while I enjoyed a peaceful evening at home.

My third skin cancer surgery.  No pictures, of course.  

August

My son and the sixth graders joined the middle school and high school bands for two weeks of band camp and put on a performance on the last day.

A visit to the skate park and water park.

Bri got her ears pierced

And celebrated her 8th birthday

The start of 3rd and 6th grade

September

We attended the wedding of the girl I used to babysit through her baby/toddler years.

Saw Darci Lynne at the fair.  Bri got her very own Petunia.  

Monster truck show at the fair.

A Minor league ball game.

Bought two new members of the family, our guinea pigs Nutmeg and Louie.

Some fun at Maze Quest.

October

I celebrated turning 41.  No pictures of that day.  

Bri joined me on the Walk For Alzheimer's.  

November

Since the weather on Halloween was rainy, the changed Trick-or-Treat to the beginning of November.

Matt and his dad spent his 12th birthday at a Redskins game

December

Bri performed in Moscow Ballet's Great Russian Nutcracker.

Bri started learning the recorder in 3rd grade music class.

The start of something new for my boy, basketball.

Matt playing his trumpet in the 5th/6th grade Holiday concert.

We made it to New York for Christmas with my side of the family.

Then home on Christmas Day to see what Santa left under the tree.

Wow, 2019 was full!  Even though we are always busy with lots of activities I want to be more intentional in 2020 when it comes to making time for family and friends.  With being so busy it's rare that I have any time for friends anymore and I could really use a friend right now.  

It's been a fun and relaxing Christmas vacation.  After our traveling to and from New York we've been spending most of our time at home, with the exception of a one night sleepover the kids had at my parents' and a trip to the dentist for their cleanings.  My son has been thoroughly enjoying his new Playstation.  I usually limit the time they have on their devices, but since it's new and it's a holiday break I've made an exception.  Tonight I will cook some food, maybe do a puzzle and relax in the comfort of my home as we watch the ball drop on television and welcome not only a new year but a new decade.  A new beginning and a chance to start over.  Let's make it a good one!

Happy New Year, friends!  I wish you all a wonderful year filled with many blessings! 

Writing

I have 8 years of writings on this blog and it's all been about my personal experiences as a mother, a wife, and my every day life.  Although I haven't had the time to write in here daily I've enjoyed keeping a blog.  Because I have so much already written in here I have no intention of closing it.  I haven't shared this blog with many people and no one in my life reads it.  I've kept it silent.  I did start another blog called Dawn Marie Writes.  I enjoy blogs that are more personal and about day to day living but in this blog I'm more formal in my writing.  If you're interested please check out the other blog and feel free to follow.  I will be spreading the word about that blog to those I know personally.  Also, at some point I may even pay to have the "blogspot" part dropped.

Today I finished a short and simple post on "Peace."  I intend on writing something about Kindness, Faith and things like that.  If you're interested check it out and I'd love the feedback.

https://dawnmariewrites.blogspot.com/

In 2020 I'd like to be more intentional on writing regularly.  I'm also working on a novel that I hope to be published.  It's a slow work in progress.