
Isn't that the truth? I have often encountered many times where cleaning the house seemed like a waste of time and today was one of those days. My kids have a lot of toys. Too much! Toys in the living room, toys in the dining room, toys in each of their bedrooms and toys downstairs in the rec room. My goal when having children was to make the rec room the only place in the house where the toys would be. So much for that! I don't know why it's so hard for us to stay organized and keep everything where it belongs but keeping this house clean feels like it's more than a chore. I am fortunate that my parents like to splurge with the toy buying for my kids ... but for goodness sake ... it's just too much. The problem isn't my parents and their generosity. The problem is me and how I hate to get rid of things. We still have toys from when Matthew was little. I hate to part with any of it but since our home is being taken over by a massive amount of toys I guess it's safe to say this is the time.
Next weekend our community is holding a yard sale and I will be participating. It's a perfect time to get rid of things we do not need. It's time we say goodbye to the things that the kids have outgrown and even the things my husband and I have outgrown. It will be hard to see all this stuff go but it's time.
This morning I attempted to go through the clutter in the living room and sort through what we would keep and where it would go and what needed thrown out or what was worth selling. As I was putting things in it's appropriate spot the kids decided to grab some toys and play with them. When they were finished playing the toys were kept wherever they put them instead of where I wanted them to go. Ugh! After awhile I decided to just give up. It's obvious I wasn't getting anything done and it was best to wait until the little one went down for her nap.
I've set some rules in this house and my five year old knows that he cannot watch television or play video games until his toys are picked up. This rule has worked well. However the amount of toys in this house is so bad that even when the house is clean it still doesn't look clean.
It's not just the toys. My husband and I seem to have our things piled everywhere too. We seem to throw our mail and other things on the dining room table and don't tend to it right away. Then the stuff piles up for awhile. Oh I just infuriate myself over that!
I've attempted to declutter last year but that didn't work very well so my goal for this summer is to get it all done! If we don't use it we don't keep it. If we haven't used it in awhile it goes away!
I spend so much time cleaning but I can hardly ever see a difference. I clean and clean so much that I have to remind myself once in awhile to stop and enjoy the children. Some day, when the kids are grown, the toys will no longer be here. I will miss it then ... I know.